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		<title>By: Hidesundermybed..</title>
		<link>http://www.spiderfarmer.com/2010/07/07/blizzards-burqa/comment-page-1/#comment-16977</link>
		<dc:creator>Hidesundermybed..</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Sep 2010 15:42:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Having read all this, my own concerns becomes even more valid I think. I have never been comfortable with letting people online know who I am, even those I think of as close friends and have known for years.
One friend from another game wanted to try WoW, and I said I could have him invited to a friendship deal so it would grant some advantages in game if he liked it.
I wasnt aware at the time that these friendship offers also sends your billing name, without haveing mentioned that fact anywhere in the process.
I was honestly quite surprised when said friend suddenly called me by my real name in game, telling me I had a pretty name. I found the whole thing so creepy I didnt speak with him for nearly 2 months after that, and its made our friendship a bit strained after it happened.
I just want to say to Blizz, thank you for nearly ruining a year long friendship by screwing me in this way.The only saving graze in this was that we live on the opposite ends of the world, and the odds of having a RL meeting are small.

I pay Blizz every month to play WoW, and in return they do everything they can to screw me. No more, I quit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having read all this, my own concerns becomes even more valid I think. I have never been comfortable with letting people online know who I am, even those I think of as close friends and have known for years.<br />
One friend from another game wanted to try WoW, and I said I could have him invited to a friendship deal so it would grant some advantages in game if he liked it.<br />
I wasnt aware at the time that these friendship offers also sends your billing name, without haveing mentioned that fact anywhere in the process.<br />
I was honestly quite surprised when said friend suddenly called me by my real name in game, telling me I had a pretty name. I found the whole thing so creepy I didnt speak with him for nearly 2 months after that, and its made our friendship a bit strained after it happened.<br />
I just want to say to Blizz, thank you for nearly ruining a year long friendship by screwing me in this way.The only saving graze in this was that we live on the opposite ends of the world, and the odds of having a RL meeting are small.</p>
<p>I pay Blizz every month to play WoW, and in return they do everything they can to screw me. No more, I quit.</p>
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		<title>By: SpiderFarmer</title>
		<link>http://www.spiderfarmer.com/2010/07/07/blizzards-burqa/comment-page-1/#comment-16884</link>
		<dc:creator>SpiderFarmer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Aug 2010 16:21:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Preach on, sister! I&#039;m with you. We&#039;ve canceled all of our Blizzard accounts. Activision; I should have known that they couldn&#039;t keep their hands off such a valuable property, and that they would have to cover it with the shit activision is known for carrying in buckets everywhere they go.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Preach on, sister! I&#8217;m with you. We&#8217;ve canceled all of our Blizzard accounts. Activision; I should have known that they couldn&#8217;t keep their hands off such a valuable property, and that they would have to cover it with the shit activision is known for carrying in buckets everywhere they go.</p>
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		<title>By: Yellow</title>
		<link>http://www.spiderfarmer.com/2010/07/07/blizzards-burqa/comment-page-1/#comment-16871</link>
		<dc:creator>Yellow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 04:40:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a horriffic decision. Not only females will be affected by this-
Every gamer who&#039;se ever gotten into a flamewar? Your real name is now public. 
If someone carries a grudge for that facemelting you gave them in battlegrounds half a year ago? Now they can find you.
People DO carry grudges. Don&#039;t think for a second that the bad guys haven&#039;t heard this announcement and gone over their hate list. There are people who enjoy this sort of harrassment.

I have a mostly unrelated story about someone who prank called a factory in Missouri, Laggit and Platt. They prank called them weekly. For about 6 years.
Call traces showed numbers in France, Egypt, Canada, Kentucky, New York, Italy, Etc.
Why was he doing this every week? Because he liked it, apperently.
What tipped off this person to that precise factory? They never advertized internationally, or created any big public events. Apperently it was just picking up the phone book and picking one.

Now, Why would a woman start being stalked if all they do is ask and answer questions in the tech forum?
Because they can.
That&#039;s all the reason needed, and being outted as female just upped your odds of being selected.

Personally, I&#039;m paranoid. I&#039;ve been expecting this all my life. All my profile information is fake, with fake &quot;Real&quot; names thrown in just to buy me time if hackers DO try to find me.

The forum trolls? Propably do the same. So do the hackers. So, for that matter, do the stalkers.

This change does nothing but force real info out of the loyal, trusting playerbase while granting anonymity to the hackers, stalkers and trolls.

Blizzard might as well start handing out guns.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a horriffic decision. Not only females will be affected by this-<br />
Every gamer who&#8217;se ever gotten into a flamewar? Your real name is now public.<br />
If someone carries a grudge for that facemelting you gave them in battlegrounds half a year ago? Now they can find you.<br />
People DO carry grudges. Don&#8217;t think for a second that the bad guys haven&#8217;t heard this announcement and gone over their hate list. There are people who enjoy this sort of harrassment.</p>
<p>I have a mostly unrelated story about someone who prank called a factory in Missouri, Laggit and Platt. They prank called them weekly. For about 6 years.<br />
Call traces showed numbers in France, Egypt, Canada, Kentucky, New York, Italy, Etc.<br />
Why was he doing this every week? Because he liked it, apperently.<br />
What tipped off this person to that precise factory? They never advertized internationally, or created any big public events. Apperently it was just picking up the phone book and picking one.</p>
<p>Now, Why would a woman start being stalked if all they do is ask and answer questions in the tech forum?<br />
Because they can.<br />
That&#8217;s all the reason needed, and being outted as female just upped your odds of being selected.</p>
<p>Personally, I&#8217;m paranoid. I&#8217;ve been expecting this all my life. All my profile information is fake, with fake &#8220;Real&#8221; names thrown in just to buy me time if hackers DO try to find me.</p>
<p>The forum trolls? Propably do the same. So do the hackers. So, for that matter, do the stalkers.</p>
<p>This change does nothing but force real info out of the loyal, trusting playerbase while granting anonymity to the hackers, stalkers and trolls.</p>
<p>Blizzard might as well start handing out guns.</p>
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		<title>By: SpiderFarmer</title>
		<link>http://www.spiderfarmer.com/2010/07/07/blizzards-burqa/comment-page-1/#comment-16634</link>
		<dc:creator>SpiderFarmer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jul 2010 06:31:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well...I&#039;m beginning to think they whole thing was a smoke screen.  They throw this idea out there that they know is legally a nightmare if they implement; wait for the fan base to work themselves up a bit, then &quot;step back&quot; and offer something way less egregious, but still a big step towards commercializing the user base. 

I&#039;m guessing that Activision was mostly thinking about rolling around in the giant trunkload of money they got from Facebook.  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well&#8230;I&#8217;m beginning to think they whole thing was a smoke screen.  They throw this idea out there that they know is legally a nightmare if they implement; wait for the fan base to work themselves up a bit, then &#8220;step back&#8221; and offer something way less egregious, but still a big step towards commercializing the user base. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m guessing that Activision was mostly thinking about rolling around in the giant trunkload of money they got from Facebook.  <img src='http://www.spiderfarmer.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Just a draenei paladin</title>
		<link>http://www.spiderfarmer.com/2010/07/07/blizzards-burqa/comment-page-1/#comment-16630</link>
		<dc:creator>Just a draenei paladin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 22:38:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, just wanted to say I agree 100% with you. Only a few years ago, I was new to WoW and made friends with &#039;some guy&#039;. I offhandedly mentioned my then-boyfriend, thereby outing my gender, and &#039;some guy&#039; became &#039;creepy stalker&#039;. He sent me whispers every time I logged on and wanted to know what I had been doing whenever I wasn&#039;t online. I tried to politely tell him to leave me alone but that only made him turn aggressive. Eventually I had to delete my character just to get away from him.

All of this before Real ID. God only knows what will happen when my real name is attached to all my posts - and that&#039;s assuming that Real ID in-game isn&#039;t later forced on everyone as well. I won&#039;t be able to just delete a character or change realm if I&#039;m being stalked. What is Blizzard thinking?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, just wanted to say I agree 100% with you. Only a few years ago, I was new to WoW and made friends with &#8217;some guy&#8217;. I offhandedly mentioned my then-boyfriend, thereby outing my gender, and &#8217;some guy&#8217; became &#8216;creepy stalker&#8217;. He sent me whispers every time I logged on and wanted to know what I had been doing whenever I wasn&#8217;t online. I tried to politely tell him to leave me alone but that only made him turn aggressive. Eventually I had to delete my character just to get away from him.</p>
<p>All of this before Real ID. God only knows what will happen when my real name is attached to all my posts &#8211; and that&#8217;s assuming that Real ID in-game isn&#8217;t later forced on everyone as well. I won&#8217;t be able to just delete a character or change realm if I&#8217;m being stalked. What is Blizzard thinking?</p>
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		<title>By: Very Jane Doe</title>
		<link>http://www.spiderfarmer.com/2010/07/07/blizzards-burqa/comment-page-1/#comment-16628</link>
		<dc:creator>Very Jane Doe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 19:27:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m so with you on this. I&#039;ve been gaming since, well lets just say when I started gaming Frogger was cutting edge. I&#039;m fine with sharing my name with some of my closest friends, but that does not mean imply consent to share my name with their friends. Or to put it bluntly, you pick up a guy at a bar and give him your number you have an expectation that your number doesn&#039;t automatically (without him or you doing anything else) get given to all his buddies as well. Currently this is the case with no opt-out.

As to &#039;why would someone harass a woman with a tech problem?&#039; well, there are a lot of very socially isolated young men playing these type of games and many of them are very lacking in appropriate social behavior. The majority of men aren&#039;t like that. But then you don&#039;t lock your door because 99% of the people in your city are nice and won&#039;t rob and murder you. You lock it to keep out that 1% that&#039;s unhinged and irrational enough to do so in the event that you draw the unlucky straw of being the one they decide to go after. There&#039;s no telling what can send a disturbed mind into the realm of thinking &#039;that&#039;s the one I want even if she&#039;s called the cops on me, contacted a GM, name changed, changed realms, changed her email address and moved to another city&#039;. Just answering someone a question like where they can find a quest mob rather than tell them &quot;use f**ing wowhead u f**&quot; can be enough to make some people think you like them, like really like them. Like desperately want to hear about their secret sexual fantasy like them. And that wasn&#039;t a made up example, it wasn&#039;t me, but man, this is why I pick gender neutral names if possible and make most of my chars male.

As I said, I&#039;ve gamed a lot. I&#039;ve gotten some harassment, nothing nearly as major as it could have been as I am extremely careful about handing out my RL info. I&#039;m careful about that as I am the only person with my exact name, there was one other who died a few years ago. Among my guild and trusted friends I&#039;m fine with being female. Among random strangers if people try to get out of me info I go with gay middle-aged construction worker. It works out to less issues, even with the rampant homophobia in most gaming circles. The vast majority of male gamers don&#039;t want constant attention, consoling and closer relations with a middle aged gay guy - and the insults aren&#039;t quite as bad and do not persist over nearly as long time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m so with you on this. I&#8217;ve been gaming since, well lets just say when I started gaming Frogger was cutting edge. I&#8217;m fine with sharing my name with some of my closest friends, but that does not mean imply consent to share my name with their friends. Or to put it bluntly, you pick up a guy at a bar and give him your number you have an expectation that your number doesn&#8217;t automatically (without him or you doing anything else) get given to all his buddies as well. Currently this is the case with no opt-out.</p>
<p>As to &#8216;why would someone harass a woman with a tech problem?&#8217; well, there are a lot of very socially isolated young men playing these type of games and many of them are very lacking in appropriate social behavior. The majority of men aren&#8217;t like that. But then you don&#8217;t lock your door because 99% of the people in your city are nice and won&#8217;t rob and murder you. You lock it to keep out that 1% that&#8217;s unhinged and irrational enough to do so in the event that you draw the unlucky straw of being the one they decide to go after. There&#8217;s no telling what can send a disturbed mind into the realm of thinking &#8216;that&#8217;s the one I want even if she&#8217;s called the cops on me, contacted a GM, name changed, changed realms, changed her email address and moved to another city&#8217;. Just answering someone a question like where they can find a quest mob rather than tell them &#8220;use f**ing wowhead u f**&#8221; can be enough to make some people think you like them, like really like them. Like desperately want to hear about their secret sexual fantasy like them. And that wasn&#8217;t a made up example, it wasn&#8217;t me, but man, this is why I pick gender neutral names if possible and make most of my chars male.</p>
<p>As I said, I&#8217;ve gamed a lot. I&#8217;ve gotten some harassment, nothing nearly as major as it could have been as I am extremely careful about handing out my RL info. I&#8217;m careful about that as I am the only person with my exact name, there was one other who died a few years ago. Among my guild and trusted friends I&#8217;m fine with being female. Among random strangers if people try to get out of me info I go with gay middle-aged construction worker. It works out to less issues, even with the rampant homophobia in most gaming circles. The vast majority of male gamers don&#8217;t want constant attention, consoling and closer relations with a middle aged gay guy &#8211; and the insults aren&#8217;t quite as bad and do not persist over nearly as long time.</p>
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		<title>By: RealID pt.3; Penny Arcade Chimes In; Internet Dragons. &#171; What You Did There; I See It.</title>
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		<dc:creator>RealID pt.3; Penny Arcade Chimes In; Internet Dragons. &#171; What You Did There; I See It.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 17:16:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] SpiderFarmer makes one of many fantastic posts from a female gamer&#8217;s standpoint, and I commend her for her post. Also deserving of praise for the same topic are all the folks over in the WoW Ladies community who decided to step up and speak their minds &#8211; not to mention this incredible master list of information and links. Well done! [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] SpiderFarmer makes one of many fantastic posts from a female gamer&#8217;s standpoint, and I commend her for her post. Also deserving of praise for the same topic are all the folks over in the WoW Ladies community who decided to step up and speak their minds &#8211; not to mention this incredible master list of information and links. Well done! [...]</p>
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		<title>By: John Doe</title>
		<link>http://www.spiderfarmer.com/2010/07/07/blizzards-burqa/comment-page-1/#comment-16624</link>
		<dc:creator>John Doe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 08:18:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not agreeing with the RealID system, but as far as a women posting on the tech support forum, how is that in any way going to lead to male harassment? What I mean is, how does a conversation evolve from &quot;my game is broken, please help&quot; (posted by Jane Doe) into some random dude seeing that name, and immediately making the decision to stalk that person. I certainly see a problem with females getting harassed on the other boards which is why I still support everyones view points on this. The thing I have a hard time believing is the assumption that a stalker is going to see a random female name and randomly pick that person to harass. There still needs to be some degree of incentive, which I can&#039;t fathom being provided over a tech forum/question. Wouldn&#039;t it be easier for a theoretical stalker to just skim through facebook pictures rather than picking a random name off a tech support forum?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not agreeing with the RealID system, but as far as a women posting on the tech support forum, how is that in any way going to lead to male harassment? What I mean is, how does a conversation evolve from &#8220;my game is broken, please help&#8221; (posted by Jane Doe) into some random dude seeing that name, and immediately making the decision to stalk that person. I certainly see a problem with females getting harassed on the other boards which is why I still support everyones view points on this. The thing I have a hard time believing is the assumption that a stalker is going to see a random female name and randomly pick that person to harass. There still needs to be some degree of incentive, which I can&#8217;t fathom being provided over a tech forum/question. Wouldn&#8217;t it be easier for a theoretical stalker to just skim through facebook pictures rather than picking a random name off a tech support forum?</p>
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		<title>By: Morendo</title>
		<link>http://www.spiderfarmer.com/2010/07/07/blizzards-burqa/comment-page-1/#comment-16622</link>
		<dc:creator>Morendo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 04:44:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is all about Blizzard preparing for Facebook integration:

http://investor.activision.com/releasedetail.cfm?releaseid=466721</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is all about Blizzard preparing for Facebook integration:</p>
<p><a href="http://investor.activision.com/releasedetail.cfm?releaseid=466721" rel="nofollow">http://investor.activision.com/releasedetail.cfm?releaseid=466721</a></p>
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		<title>By: SpiderFarmer</title>
		<link>http://www.spiderfarmer.com/2010/07/07/blizzards-burqa/comment-page-1/#comment-16619</link>
		<dc:creator>SpiderFarmer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 01:06:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know. It&#039;s the most illogical business decision I&#039;ve ever seen. It makes me wish I knew more about privacy laws in the U.S., because the pre-enabling Real ID in game seems like it should be a violation of something more than just ethics and good sense.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know. It&#8217;s the most illogical business decision I&#8217;ve ever seen. It makes me wish I knew more about privacy laws in the U.S., because the pre-enabling Real ID in game seems like it should be a violation of something more than just ethics and good sense.</p>
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